No, it is not exclusive to Amsoil, although it may be reasonable to say it's predominant with Amsoil. In fact, occasionally, it won't happen at all; it is very accurate to say that this phenomenon is unpredictable in its occurence, and its magnitude. However, due to the occurrence rate of the use of Amsoil, that will make some of these events seem more populated than others, because Amsoil is so widely used overall. (IOW, you'll also see this often with RL and RP and TDT at times, but because those products are not as widely used, the phenomenon is "perceived" to be more predominant with the use of Amsoil). It's a self-fulfilling prophesy. I don't know that we will ever have a true handle on how much, by percentage, this really happens. From the outside looking in, it certainly is predominant. You and I are not the first ones to notice it. Many people have walked away from using Amsoil after experiencing this phenomenon. Other people plow on through and don't give it a second thought.
No, the bypass won't catch all this stuff right away. Two reasons why:
1) bypass filters only see perhaps 10% of the total flow for each "cycle" of the sump. That means 9 out of 10 times, all that residual Cu is going past the bypass filter (not through it, but physically never entering it, staying in the "main" flow stream and not entering the "bypass" stream). IOW, 90% of the time, any particle will evade the bypass filter element completely.
2) bypass filters, while very efficient, are not 100% efficient. The smaller the particle, the more likely it will pass through the bypass element, perhaps one or two times? A particle 4um in size is likely to be caught the first time around; a 1um particle will probably not be initially caught. It does not really matter though, because most particles smaller than 5um really don't do much, if any, damage. However ...
If the concentration is high, there is debate about whether it becomes abrasive; I, for one, believe this is possible. Blackstone has made comments to this very topic about it being abrasive. It is not unheard of to see elevated Fe at times (but not always) in conjunction with the elevated Cu. But to be fair to Amsoil, you have to look at the exposure duration (the OCI) to see how much may be attributed to simple expected wear, and how much might be abrasive. Fe will naturally accumulate with longer OCIs, so who really knows how much is "normal" wear and how much is "chemical" wear. To be blunt, no one, including myself, can pin it down.
I do not agree that high TBN could be a cause; it does not explain why dino oils don't see this phenomenon, and yet essentially they have TBN as high as Amsoil. To this end, I don't think this is a reasonable explanation. Plus, there are still CI-4 and CI-4+ products out there being used, and they have TBN nearing 14 at times. To be generic, this does not happen with the dino oils. Therefore, we can eliminate TBN as the sole cause. High TBN is not unique to Amsoil (or RL, RP, etc). It has always been "normal" to see a bit of Cu shed in a new Dmax engine. Let me quantify that statement; "new" being around 20k miles or less, and "a bit" being 100ppm of Cu or less. And if you use a dino oil, that quickly subsides. But there are times when the use of Amsoil and some other high end PAO products will make the Cu elevate significantly; 300ppm, 450ppm, 600ppm are not unheard of, and I saw one UOA with Cu approaching 1000ppm!
I, for one, do not want to experience this phenomenon in my Dmax. I cannot prove that the massive amounts of Cu are destructive, but I don't see the sense in taking a chance. Further, the real issue is that as long as this phenomenon is happening, it will skew and mask the Cu from other potential problems, as seen in a UOA. The volume (quantity) level will be so high that you'll not be able to distinguish other events, should they occur. If one were to use Amsoil, and see elevated Cu and perhaps Fe, then you've experienced an un-natural shift in some of your data; you're experiencing a 50% reduction of credible information in the main wear metals of a UOA (those being Cu, Fe, Al, Pb). Some people would say that as long as the Cu and Fe are not accompanied by Pb or Al, or perhaps Tn, that all is well. But I would counter with this concept; if you're going to ignore Cu and Fe, then why have them in the test at all? If you are saying that I can ignore Cu and Fe as long as Pb and Al and Tn are not present, then why would we EVER look at them? Why not just ONLY track Pb and Al and perhaps Tn? I'll tell you why; because Pb and Al and Tn are not EXCLUSIVE to wear. Cu and Fe are also tell-tale elements to wear, and when you mask or un-naturally alter their occurence rate, you are seeing skewed data that can mask information from other bad events. If this "ignore the Cu and Fe" argument were true, then why do Oil Analyzers, Blackstone, Cat, and all the other analysis services actually test for Cu and Fe? Does the following statement really make sense?: "Well, you can ignore Cu and Fe while this phenomenon is occuring, because Pb and Al and Tn will really tell you if wear is occuring. But after the phenomenon subsides, it's really important to track Cu and Fe." Where is the logic to that statement? Look, at its base, you either are going to trust the WHOLE UOA to tell you that things are are OK or not OK, or you're admitting that you're going to selectivly pick and choose what you want to hear from the UOA. I am not saying that using Amsoil will result in destructive wear that will send the engine to an early grave. I am saying that often (but not always) using these types of products will grossly skew your UOA data, and it is a false pretense to simply ignore some data because it doesn't fall neatly into your expectations of UOA results. I cannot assure you that this will result in true damage, but I CAN assure you that if this phenomenon does occur, you have much lower chance of spotting a possible problem because the data is so greatly skewed that you'll never see it coming. If we could rely SOLELY on Pb and Al and Tn, then we'd NEVER test for Cu and Fe, would we?
Further, let's presume you are willing to experience this phenomenon and progress through it; I don't see any evidence of Dmax engines dying from the use of Amsoil. You will need to cycle a few OCIs through the engine with Amsoil to make the phenomenon go away; it needs time to normalize. You have two choices:
1) use Amsoil to it's full potential; perhaps two 25k mile OCI cycles. That's 50k miles of skewed data. How many years would it take you to let this issue expire? For me, personally, it would take SEVEN years (7k miles annually over 7 years). Even if you drove 25k miles a year, it would be TWO YEARS before the phenomenon would likley diminish to a point where "normal" results were possible.
2) use Amsoil, but do so with "flush" cycles. Perhaps two or three OCIs only 3k miles apart. That is REALLY expensive "normalization" if you ask me.
So, you either have to wait a LONG time for this to go away, or you have to pay through the nose to "flush" this away. I don't see any alternative to these two options. Wow - to me, neither of these are attractive options. But like I said, there are some people that don't flinch at these choices; good for them. It is, afer all, a matter of personal choice.
Now, in all fairness, I have NEVER seen or heard of a Dmax failure due to the use of Amsoil, so this probably is an academic debate and not one that will ever manifest itself in the demise of an engine. I believe Amsoil to be a reputable brand line, and they are capable products that I have recommended to friends at times. I just believe that the specific combination of certain products (Amsoil, RL, RP, etc) and a Dmax engine are not the "best" choice for me. Anyone that chooses to use Amsoil in a Dmax is not making a "bad" decision. But they should make that decision with the full knowledge of what they are gaining, and giving up, when making that choice.