Working in the road design industry, the short answer is not all highways in the US are concrete - far from it.
In Minnesota, the Concrete and Asphalt pavement industries work hard to better their products and compete hard against each other.
Concrete can be done very well, and last a very long time. The issue is creating a very solid and well drained base, using stainless steel or epoxy coated dowel bars to connect the slabs, and using a low water content (very stiff) mix of concrete to minimize the migration of water (and salt) into the concrete itself. Add on top of that, the time construct, and cure the surface correctly, and downtime to reconstruct a road can be considerable.
Ultimately, we usually end up selecting a road surface based on a variety factors, including initial construction cost, lifecycle cost, soil conditions, and availability of suitable materials for construction, inconvenience posed by construction, etc. When oil costs go up, asphalt prices do too and makes concrete more viable in more scenarios.
We've come a long way on how we groove the concrete to prevent hydroplaning - newer roads are much quieter than the old way we used to do these. We also can do diamond grinding on older concrete to make them quieter too.
Most of it comes down to what its the expected cost over a design lifespan - concrete with one major repair 1/2 to 2/3rds of the way through life, or multiple mill and overlays of asphalt.
Lots of variations from there, but that's the basics.