Sorry Mark,
No offense intended. It's just when people start talking about women in skimpy clothes, my mind gets cloudy.
As far as gravity being the polar opposite of matter, here is an interesting quote from Hawking; "The total energy of the universe is exactly zero. The matter in the universe is made out of positive energy. However, the matter is all attracting itself by gravity. Two pieces of matter that are close to each other have less energy than the same two pieces a long way apart, because you have to expend energy to separate them against the gravitational force that is pulling them together. Thus, in a sense, the gravitational field has negative energy. In the case of a universe that is approximately uniform in space, one can show that this negative gravitational energy exactly cancels the positive energy represented by the matter. So the total energy of the universe is zero." (Hawking, 1988, 129) [thanks to Ross King for this quote]