LS1Mike has a great setup. Looks like a sediment filter with backflush, iron filter, water softener and a whole house filter. Just my guesstimate. He spent 16k, and well worth it. If you have the money- that is the way to go.
The good news if you can't afford a solution in the very low five figure range- you can mirror much of what LS1Mike has for under 2k, if you install yourself. You are going to have to figure out the discharge of the waste water- but you have options. I can't find pics of my system, but I have a setup close to LS1Mike, that I self installed. It smelled, left huge sediment in the pipes, etc. Water was so bad it ate through the copper pipes twice. Did my self install, and never a problem. One feature I have that LS1Mike appears not to have is I have a dual tank water softener. The benefit of a dual tank is the system regenerates based on water used, not time. Saves a lot of salt. When one tank is regenerating, the other tank is softening the water.
For years I discharged the discharge water into the septic tank. My sense it was not good, as I was putting salt, iron, potassium promagrate into the septic tank. My solution was to install a sump pump basin next to the water conditioning system. I use a sump pump in the basin to push the water out of the basin and into a french drain. Some day I will install a second basin and pump, tie the two systems together, so if one pump fails the other will take over.
What LS1Mike does not have, which is very common in these setups, is bypass of some or all of the water conditioning components. It drives me crazy, too pay top dollar and the installer, for another one hour of labor and 100 in parts can allow the flow of water if any component fails. What the installer states is you can do it by using the bypass valves built into the components- which is technically accurate but operationally flawed.
We have two homes, I don't have a picture of my system with the real bad water- that home is 1500 miles from me. But I just took a picture of the waterboss I installed in our home in Utah that is on city water. The key to my install is I can remove the water softener from the home right now, with zero disruption to water delivery to the home. Every other home in my subdivision, if you pull the water softener, no more water to the house. All so the installer could save a few minutes and a few dollars in parts.... and make you call him if you have a problem. I can buy a replacement water softener today of most any make and model, and replace it myself, in under 30 minutes, all while water flows to every faucet in the home. This softener is a waterboss, sold at home depot, made in Ohio, I think I paid about $350. They provide customer service direct tpo the homeowner, multi year warranty, and a call to Ohio gets you a technician to walk you through a repair.
I did find a pic of my other system. Not real clear- but if you look to the far right one can see the sump basin.