When I change my oil, first the plug gets pulled, then the filter. I wipe the gasket seating area off, the using CLEAN oil I lube the gasket, fill the oil filter ONLY if it's a straight shot to the spud it screw's onto. No sense having the oil draining down your arm ,or side of the filter . Tighten the filter hand tight, then Put the plug back in, and fill'er up. I've been doing this routine since I got my first car in 1971. They say most engine wear happens at startup. I kinda think it's due to starting a motor with no actual oil being circulated , while waiting for the filter to fill, then get circulated inside the motor. When you shut your motor off after running , isn't your filter full of oil?, and doesn't your oil pressure read just about instantly on the next startup?. So how could that be a bad thing?.,,