I ask that question of numerous people often. My coworker is quite transparent about his finances. He’s got a 2018 and 2019 SUV and compact car. His wife doesn’t work, and he’s got a big 2800 sq ft home. He makes about the same I do. He has barely any savings at all, yet he’s in his 40s.
The funny thing is, his wife pressures him to buy way more than he wants. She wants the safer, big SUV. She wants the new home to avoid home repair problems. He says he wants peace in the home, so he just does what she wants.
It’s kinda hilarious to me. My wife is much more respectful of my decisions to buy older vehicles and cheaper housing. My coworker’s family dynamic just makes me