learned by buying a stick for my first car, that way i had no choice...mazda rx7 (1987), little tough at first with the clutch and stalling etc, and driving in town and coming into situations where you are going too fast for first but too slow and lugging in 2nd, it's all about anticipating other driver's speed and movement to keep it from lugging etc... but i got it real good in about 3 days, then when i went to truck driving school i hopped in and rowed through all the gears there too, i think everyone should learn a manual, it's easy as pie.... dead battery? pop start it...better gas mileage, and its funner.