I think the issue with gapping iridium is if you use the coin type( with the ramp) that has you pry on the center electrode. Its hard but brittle and prying on it can break it.
I like the tools
@D60 posted above. I use feeler and wire gauges carefully.
I usually undergap my plugs by about .005.
@Trav and i have discussed in the past, undergapping plugs maybe easier on the coils. I have never replaced a coil or cop since doing this...