Stability favors the meek. Fortune favors the bold. On the flipside OP already made his fortune.People like predictable car payments. It’s an anti - pattern to becoming wealthy which takes discipline.
Stability favors the meek. Fortune favors the bold. On the flipside OP already made his fortune.People like predictable car payments. It’s an anti - pattern to becoming wealthy which takes discipline.
The answer has to be since they don't have much wealth or income they assume others don't as well. Also the POV depends on where one is in life.Exactly.
How can Oil Pan, or M1, make an assessment of anyone’s situation on the basis of one data point - that he buys new cars?
The very most important thing is that you survived your "exciting Saturday night". No visit to the ER. No jail time.Thanks for defending me Astro . But seriously I certainly did not expect many to agree with this "plan". Looks like it turned into a good discussion and really I hoped it would.
But the idea of a Lease may be worth pursuing. I may do that. Thanks
I wasn’t defending oil pan or criticize OP. I do think people misunderstood oil pan but his statement was so crude that he basically open a internet dojo in the hood to incite challengers.Exactly.
How can Oil Pan, or M1, make an assessment of anyone’s situation on the basis of one data point - that he buys new cars?
Such foolish assessment, without regard to the details of the situation. Without the personal experience.
It’s particularly arrogant for someone without children, to try tell someone with children, who has lived a full life, how to spend their money, and how to leave a “legacy”.
Back to @Al - enjoy that new car!
There are people who have already spent the “inheritance” that they expect to receive from their parents.The answer has to be since they don't have much wealth or income they assume others don't as well. Also the POV depends on where one is in life.
Some people consider 30 mins in a nice vehicle better and cheaper than therapy. It certainly is cheaper than going to a bar or cigar lounge in my case. I drop around $100 each time I go to the lounge. Even though I thoroughly enjoy each trip and had built up a nice and unique collection via it, I no longer desired it as the clienteles are not of my social class so I don’t gain financially from being there. A cigar lounge I can benefit from has $100k membership deposit and a $25k annual fee. I definitely wouldn’t join unless I go there a few times as guest and make several hundreds thousands dollars from it first. I go with a few around here with a family friend because his friends in the industry gave me their assessment on the then pending menthol ban and I acted according based on all of my research and gained $30k from it; therefore, spending $100 and increased my collection, at shop marked up prices, 5 times this past 8 months is well worth it.The very most important thing is that you survived your "exciting Saturday night". No visit to the ER. No jail time.
In the mean time, I had to visit my psychologist due to Skyactive's comment about abandoning my adult children by spending their inheritance.
I feel the same. I can't think of a single vehicle that fits my needs and isn't wildly over-priced and/or doesn't have well-documented serious issues. No car payments are nice but what I fear most is totaling one of my vehicles and being forced to buy something different and modern. The kids drive a 2022 Kia Soul that I actually love and even with all the issues Kia has in general if it came in AWD I'd probably buy one for myself if I had to since it'd take me at least 10 years to go 100,000 miles and be out of the powertrain warranty. At that point I'd be paid off for 6 or 7 years and even if worth nothing, who cares?Im 61 , both vehicles are like 20 years old, both motorcycles are 10 to 20 years old, Have zero desire to buy anything new, unless forced to.
I will have to eventually replace the wifes 21 year old toyota, or it is a top of the list
'22 Soul, '20 Tundra and '19 RX350 aren't modern?I feel the same. I can't think of a single vehicle that fits my needs and isn't wildly over-priced and/or doesn't have well-documented serious issues. No car payments are nice but what I fear most is totaling one of my vehicles and being forced to buy something different and modern. The kids drive a 2022 Kia Soul that I actually love and even with all the issues Kia has in general if it came in AWD I'd probably buy one for myself if I had to since it'd take me at least 10 years to go 100,000 miles and be out of the powertraine warranty.
Looking over my fleet - his seems pretty late-model to me… but none of them are fancy.'22 Soul, '20 Tundra and '19 RX350 aren't modern?
The Soul is current, the Tundra is the same basic design from 2007 and the RX 350 came out in 2015. I fear vehicles released and built in the past 4 years both for price and look what Toyota did to the Tundra - for almost 2x the cost I get a vehicle that is half as reliable. No thank you!'22 Soul, '20 Tundra and '19 RX350 aren't modern?
I make a distinction between pre and post-2020 which seems to be a real turning point in vehicle design and manufacturing. There is a transmission guy on TikTok who is really very reasonable and he was just saying he can't even trust OEM parts anymore and that he's spending all his time doing in-house QC. Castings with cracks in them, parts that are out of spec right out of the box, and the list goes on. He's been doing this for a long time and said he's never seen so many QC issues with parts in his career. This is of course just one aspect of what things are like now and it doesn't even delve into the actual design issues or the problems with how these parts are being put together.Anything that comes with Apple CarPlay and some sort of collision sensors from factory is very modern to me. Even parking lot sensor system is high tech.
At the age of 78 and being financially good (not wealthy) this method is not for everyone.
I did this with a '16 Spark, '19 Crosstrek, and '22 Forester. If I am still alive, next up will be a'27WRX.
My '22 needed tires- I buy top end tires so $1300+, CVT oil change (+400), Walnut blasting in the 1 year future. Also the Basic warranty. Its hard to put a price on that. So all in all this method keeps me with new vechicles, latest safety and zero repairs.
Why am I posting this? BC its an exciting saturday nite.
Off-topic examples of what can happen as we get older.*Dad had just finished putting all three of us through college. He was in sales, and a recession was brewing. Sales had been down during the Gulf War, but Dad never wavered in his commitment to us. We had no idea that he had had to take out a third mortgage on the house to cover my brother and sisters college expenses. Further, my sister was in the process of getting a second bachelors degree after graduating from Mount Holyoke three years prior. I think paying for one degree, and allowing her to graduate without student loans, was a reasonable extent/execution of dad‘s responsibility to her. The subsequent extra three years of rent money, tuition and expenses, that she received from him while getting an art degree at the Mass College of Art in Boston, was a Luxury, for which dad had paid. He had already granted her his “legacy”, but she was just too entitled to see it, and wanted more.