It's easy to say but hard to internalize that time is the biggest resource. Most all my friends are retired so I'm joining them and will have more time to do stuff with them. I've been working from home for the past 7 years since COVID so that was a great transition. I hit my number and the math says that I don't need to work any longer. It's been a mental rollercoaster about retiring but I'm finally in a good mental place to give my notice next week and get on with my next chapter.If you had the finances to retire early, good for you (and I'm not doubting you or throwing stones).
Although I have everything I need, there are some things I wish I had. For example, I've always wanted a Porsche GT3 RS so I could blast up nearby Hwy 1 and drive to Big Sur for lunch - but in the big scheme of life that GT3 is not very important.
Prior to retiring we had moved out of our home town of 40 years to the Central Coast Wine Country. When I retired I had already been working out of my home office for almost 6 years (this was 20 years before Covid). I left behind my colleagues and more importantly, many decades long friendships. When you're older and no longer have children in the school system and don't work locally it's a good way for a person to become isolated. At least that was my experience. Fortunately we have good neighbors and even more importantly I've been happily married to the same woman for 49 years, so life is good.
Scott