If your front and rear suspensions are the same design, and have the same loadings, impacts etc...then they will all wear out about the same time.
If they are designed differently (and they are), they will wear as an axle set, not a car set.
Gross example, look at an old leaf sprung LandCruiser, versus an old leaf sprung Hilux. (Front axle)
Cruiser had the leaf spring pivot at the rear, Hilux at the front. Cruiser hits a pot-hole, and the car is trying to "pole vault" the spring, giving the shock a pizzling in rebound. Hilux, the wheel is "lifted", and the shock gets a fairly mild compressive load.
Both had similar rear arrangements, but vastly different actions on the shocks.