You wouldn't see an increase in wear from the loss of 10% of flow, unless that engine was already suffering from low oil volume (read: it was already worn out).
A higher volume pump typically only generates higher volumes at speed, not idle...and idle is were you have the lowest volume of oil being pumped through the system.
And in my guestimation, the volume they talk about would be the volume of the pump at free flow (0 psi), not the volume of the pump as its trying to push the oil through the tight tolerances of the engine (60psi). As long as you had oil pressure at idle, above the lowest recommended pressure stated by the manufacturer, you should be fine.
And to put it into perspective, a typical car oiling system is capable of gallons per minute, a bypass is only scavenging quarts per minute (typically around a quart per minute or less at idle).