OK I am going to assume good faith here, and that I am not getting punked.
Go out to your car. Pull up on the fender. It doesn’t take much, right? You were able to raise it 1/2” or more without getting He-Man on it, right? The spring and the mass of the car are at equilibrium when at rest. You only have to overcome the equilibrium to change the ride height, not the entire mass of the car.
Same for a garage door spring. It’s preloaded so it’s easy to open the door, but it will still drop to the ground, and not float. If you exert effort equal to a fraction of the mass of the door, you can raise it.
A gas shock does not have to exert a lot of force to change ride height. Some have a pretty good charge and need 25-30 lbs to compress. That’s plenty to set height at a new level.
Next time you replace shocks, only change one side and take it for a ride and then park it. It will be very clear especially if the old shock was bereft of gas. Or, pull a shock in your driveway a right now, and see if the height on that side doesn’t settle lower after a drive. (Assuming the shocks still have a charge)
It’s a thing, fellas.