I think you may be on to something, I do mine by hand,socket with off corner engagementSnap-On makes a socket with increased Hex Depth that is less likely to result in this issue:
https://shop.snapon.com/product/Lug...-19-mm-Increased-Hex-Depth-Lug-Socket/LSDM190
I did the same for my Ram, but some of them are chipping. I suspect that it is related to the lug nut socket that has been used to remove/install them.