I've got a cabinet paint project on my bucket list. Spend some time at the Sawmill Creek forum (search project finish area) and determine which product has the best pros/cons to meet your needs. You have to wade through the professional threads to avoid the ones about spraying and catalyzed finishes. BM Advance comes up quite a bit with just a few other cabinet paint products (Cabinet Kote, ProClassic, Emerald, etc.) It seems that the most durable paints are the most difficult to use. For instance, the BM Advance reviews indicate that it takes a long while to fully cure (21+ days). Clean, clean, clean, degloss, clean again, prime, wait/sand/clean, 1st. coat, wait/sand/clean, 2nd. coat, wait. One day dry time between coats (per label). 3 days to paint and at least another 4 days before you rehang doors (carefully). Then, treat them gently for a few weeks while they cure. Yikes. I've painted workplace cabinets but never kitchen. Alkyd based satin enamel 20 years ago and they still look good.
You might want to take a vacation week and send the family to the mother-in-laws.