Possible STD dilemma

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Moderator please try not to lock this as I'm seriously asking for medical advice. Repliers also please keep this "professional" as I'm nervous as heck right now.


Wife is having an itching sensation under there since we started having unprotected sex one time about 1 month or 2 ago. Since I haven't been with anyone else other than her since about 8-9 years ago, and she was a virgin when we were together. There is no way she could have contract anything from somewhere else.

When I was with another girl back then, we use protection but not with the oral, and while she wasn't a one night-er, she had 3-4 boy friends from the past.




I'm having no symptom and my wife's itching is starting to turn into a greater discomfort (starting to hurt) and she has no discharge. She would literally wake up early in the morning before I woke up to research online and self diagnose. So far she was puzzled as well. While she didn't blame me for it directly (and still didn't know whether it is really an STD or not), she has been treating me cold lately. I'm also scared because I know some STD do not show symptom especially HPV.

Her sensation is more at the lips of the [censored] rather than inside, and only occur on the left side rather than the entire place. No blister, no sore, just sort of a sensitive skin sort of sensation.



We are going to see a doctor whenever we have time, but right now things are sort of busy.
 
Originally Posted By: QuOk
Could be a yeast infection,Best to see a doctor to know for sure.


Wife who works in the pharmaceutical company as a research associate told me that yeast infection usually has a discharge, but I'm not 100% trusting self diagnoses.

Any other possible idea? I've checked everything online and it seems like most of them either have no symptom or some sort of discharge or sores.
 
I'm far from an expert on STD's or the female "area" but I'll throw in my two cents. Since you both have had relatively few partners and the fact that you don't have any symptoms it is probably not an STD. Women as well as men can get various bumps and itchy areas down there that are not std's and are easily treatable. Your wife should get to your family doctor or her OBGYN as soon as possible for her peace of mind and yours.
 
Take her to the doctor and a combination of a gynecologic exam and a PAP smear will be able to diagnose the problem.

However, my vote goes for a plain 'ol yeast infection.

I would stay away from the hanky-panky in the mean-time for your sake.
 
Wow. I thought it was out of line for people to ask for fashion advice on this forum.

We can barely diagnose car problems over the internet here at BITOG!

Get her in to see the doc.
 
Originally Posted By: PandaBear



We are going to see a doctor whenever we have time, but right now things are sort of busy.


Dude, get your priorities straight and get her to the doctor today!! Infections can back up into kidneys, then to her blood, etc. Do not put this off!!
 
Nuke it from orbit. That's the only way to be sure.

(sorry)

Dude, just have her visit the doctor. It's probably just yeast. Happens all the time.
 
I thought it was a typo. I was expecting to discuss STP.

TMI! TMI!
 
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I know there are some STD's where men can be a carrier and have no symptoms and pass them along to a girl.

But in all honesty, I doubt you or her are carrying an STD. It could be all sorts of things. The doc will probably give her some antibiotics and she'll be okay.

These things can make you quite nervous though, I hear you.
 
I'm just going to toss this out there, but there is a possibility that she could be having an allegic reaction to your ejaculate.

If she has any food/chemical allergies that maybe she doesn't know about, they could be 'coming out' (pun intended) from your 'stuff'.

Just an idea......
 
Here I was going to crack wise, thinking it was a typo for STP. But it's not any fun now.

This might be a good time to be checked for STDs. Not because you expect to find anything, but because if your attitude is that sleeping with something is very risky, getting a clean report will "prove" that neither of you cheated. Everyone will feel better.

Skip that advice if having the test would raise doubts rather than quell them.
 
Originally Posted By: PandaBear
Moderator please try not to lock this as I'm seriously asking......


Dude.....this does not provide coverage! Way TOO much information for BITOG. Think about it.......your wife wants a bunch of oily guys reading about the lips of........crikey man....
 
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