I have likely had an "oil related" differential failure but no engine failures.
Working with a bunch of technophiles in the early 1970's era, I put Mobil 1 5W20 in my new VW 412 engine, and Amsoil (75W90?) in the differential.
The engine ran fine, the differential burned up the ring and pinion within 5K miles. Wore the teeth completely off, gone!!
VW had never seen anything like it, called in a local differential and driveline specialist to rebuild the differential, all under warranty.
After a short time, I switched the new diff.. to Amsoil.
It wore completely out again..... now the sports car club, SCCA, etc is not that big a world and the dealers service dept knew what I had in there.... and it burned the teeth completely off again.
However, the Amsoil was "recommended for' but did not have any api certifications, just a small company with large ambitions.
This time the Diff... was rebuilt, but with my money.
Now, a downside from buying a product from "true believer" friends. They will not consider a product shortcoming, and will tell everyone you are a hot rodder, abusive, poor maintenance.... whatever comes to mind - ignoring that I got 50K miles out of the original tires, and only 15K miles out of two differentials!!
Anway, when rebuilt again, I used only approved lubricants, and it never went bad again.
Soon after, Amsoil sent lots of pamphlets, flyers, literature, etc to their dealers that they had "improved the diff lubricant and increased the film strength by 4 times" What little tech information I could glean indicated that they realized that a synthetic lube could not do it all, some of the regular ep agents, metal soaps and other additives that mineral oil used was necessary in synthetic lubes also.
After 40+ years in the aviation industry, testing systems under environmental stress conditions I have found hundreds of new products that outperform the old products except:
They fail after 50 large temperature changes ( you get one every takeoff to high altitude)
they fail when humidity soaked (every airplane descending gets lots of this)
They fail at high altitude (hey, its an airplane)
Repeat, for 50 more things.
Short story: if your product and not been rigorously tested and shown to pass all the requirements, then you have no idea if it will or not.