I dislike 12v SAE connectors for many applications/reasons.
The source/load thing often causes reverse polarity smoke release, and they also wear out as the socket opens, then the connection is also weak intermittent, and resistive and heats up passing currents that the 18awg, or 10awg wire should have no issues handling.
There are also issues with how the wire is crimped to conductor, under the molded boot, on some, easily pulling out.
I use Anderson Powerpole connectors now. No source / load issues, self wiping, and minimal resistance.
The 15 and 30 amp and 45 amp are all the same size housings, the 45s are for 10 Awg wire and crimping them is not easy, without their special tool. The 15 and 30 amp versions no special crimp dies needed.
I stuff 8awg awg into the 45s, and they handle 55 amps continuous without issue.
Andersons Can be made more.weather resistnt when needed, fill their live ends with dielectric grease before.seating, and liquid E tape/amazing goop, where the wires enter the housings.