Just a general observation, not meant to sound like a [censored], but those of you new to smartphones in general, don't you go into a wireless store first where the sales person shows you the basics before you even buy one?
If it was a direct on-line purchase, I understand. But still, most carrier portals have very detailed info on each smartphone including product demos and videos that show you how to get around. That's if reading the manual is a no-go.