Moving to Fayetteville NC

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For those that remember, my dad retired from the navy in the fall of last year, and he's been job hunting since. We recently temporarily relocated to NE Ohio to live with family for the time. He was just offered a job, and it looks like Fayetteville NC is the place. I've heard.... mixed, things bout the Fayetteville area. I know a few people on here live in that area, and I'd like to get some idea from them as far as what we can expect.

Some reading I've been doing says that living in the city limits isn't necessarily the best place, hope mills is a better place. Obviously this is going to have my brother and sister both in high school, and we are looking for a nice neighborhood to live. Any input will be greatly appreciated.

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I got family there and a stone's through from the base.
Any city is what you make of it. I would rather be in NC than OH.

CityData has lots of topics about the area.
 
I'm sure you'll like the winter weather a lot better than you did when you were in NY state! Should avoid most of the massive dumps of snow now!
 
I went to college about 30 miles north of Fayettenam. You are fixin to be introduced to a new world. Back in the early 90's Fville was a dirty scummy city that you went to if you wanted a fight. It is much better now from what I have heard (I have a pretty good friend that has lived there for 30 years now). If you go out into the country around there prepare to hear this a lot "you aint from around here are ya?"
 
Originally Posted By: Vikas
Is your job also moving to NC?


+1. Might be time to break away.

Having just visited nc, the summer humidity is horrid. When my wife used to live there, the morning ice was a big hassle.
 
yeah the heat and humidity is really bad in this region. Get used to completely soaking your tshirt from just mowing a small lawn or changing the oil.

The ice is pretty rare that far South, we got snow 1 time (less than 2 inches) in my 4 years of college.
 
Get used to seeing drunks in every carryout late in the evening and folks not turning on their headlights until it's pitch dark out.
 
I spent some time staying in Chapel Hill and driving into Raleigh and I thought both were very nice. That's about an hour from where you are going though so things could be quite different, and are from the sounds of other's descriptions.
 
Originally Posted By: 01rangerxl
Fayettenam.
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It's [censored] like this that I hate. Military town always gets a bad rap, too.,

If you look for them, FV has some VERY nice downtown areas and the neighborhood we live in very quiet and nice; We have now lived in FV about 3-4 yrs and while it may not be as nice as Cary and Raleigh etc, there are very interesting areas that one needs to find by exploring downtown / historic FV areas a bit.
My wife was skeptical at first, as she's very particular about neighbors and as a town, about places to meet people, food, restaurants, etc, but she's pretty happy now with what we've found.

ANY town will have an area that's "ghetto" or crime is prevalent. You don't have to live in exactly that area.
 
Originally Posted By: JHZR2
Originally Posted By: Vikas
Is your job also moving to NC?


+1. Might be time to break away.

Having just visited nc, the summer humidity is horrid. When my wife used to live there, the morning ice was a big hassle.


Not as bad as Louisiana but get used to sweating outside in the summer.
 
Barkleymut said:
yeah the heat and humidity is really bad in this region. Get used to completely soaking your tshirt from just mowing a small lawn or changing the oil.

Lived in that area for many years, then moved to Ga, (heat/humidity worse).
Here's how you handle it: Have several clean shirts available when you work outside, change as needed, to stay half-way dry. Some people wear long sleeve white cotton shirts. They are actually cooler. (try it and prove it to yourself!)
 
I go the other way. I break a sweat and hold it in my cotton clothes and let it cool me. I roll up a bandanna and use it as a sweat band. I wear a hat that shades my ears. In really hot weather, I will soak my hat, shirt and the bandanna I use to cover the back of my neck. I drink water and coffee. If you avoid sweating .you will never leave an AC unit. Once you break a sweat, your metabolic rate rises and you feel better.
 
Originally Posted By: andyd
I go the other way. I break a sweat and hold it in my cotton clothes and let it cool me. I roll up a bandanna and use it as a sweat band. I wear a hat that shades my ears. In really hot weather, I will soak my hat, shirt and the bandanna I use to cover the back of my neck. I drink water and coffee. If you avoid sweating .you will never leave an AC unit. Once you break a sweat, your metabolic rate rises and you feel better.


I agree with you. My comment about changing shirts holds true, because I don't have a problem wearing a wet cotton shirt. It does cool you. But, if I take a break, (say go inside), I remove the wet shirt. No way will I put that shirt back on! I put on a fresh one! (I take a lot of breaks, therefore, I use several in a day.)
BTY, for a guy from up North, you seem to be on top of things!
 
Originally Posted By: JHZR2

+1. Might be time to break away.


Agreed. It is the perfect time to cut the apron strings.
 
Originally Posted By: Nick R
Some reading I've been doing says that living in the city limits isn't necessarily the best place, hope mills is a better place. Obviously this is going to have my brother and sister both in high school, and we are looking for a nice neighborhood to live. Any input will be greatly appreciated.


There are some nice areas around town. The Jack Britt school district is the most sought-after in the county. That's southwest of Fayetteville. I wouldn't call it Hope Mills either...much of it is in the unincorporated Cumberland County. Don't overlook Harnett County (to the north) and the Southern Pines/Pinehurst area (to the west). Where in town will your dad be working? Southern Pines is 20 miles away, but the commute is the same at 55 mph than it is for a person 10 miles away at half that speed. PM me if you prefer. I've lived in the area for 11 years.

The part I like LEAST about living here? I have to say, it's the grass. No, seriously. I love cutting grass, and the grass here is simply poor. It's usually Centipedegrass, and that's okay great if you don't like mowing. Even with our in-ground irrigation, I go three weeks without mowing. I'd much rather have a lush fescue yard that I have to cut once a week.

The part I like BEST about living here? We're very connected to our church downtown (Hay Street United Methodist Church) and through that, I've found out the secret to Fayetteville: it's the largest "small town" you'll ever come across. And by that, I mean that there's a very strong and well-connected "native" population here that most people don't realize or recognize. If you can get connected with a group of people who are local to the community and who care about the community, you'll find that it's a rather pleasant place to live. The secret to Fayetteville is that it's all who you hang out with. There's SUCH a diverse population here, that your opinion of the area will very likely be influenced by those with whom you commune.

Another great thing about the area is its location. We're going to the beach this weekend for the day. We can...it's just 2 hours down the road. We went to the mountains last fall, because we can...it's just 4 hours west. Raleigh is an hour-and-a-half north and Atlanta and DC are within 6 hours. There is a ton of golfing around here if you are into that, and water sports are popular as well, but you do have to drive up a county or two north to get to the big lakes. Surfing is popular at the coast, at Wrightsville Beach or Holden Beach. The state zoo is about an hour away. Lots to see in and around town as well.

I'm sure you'll like it, if you come here with an open mind, which you appear to have. There are a lot of closed minds about Fayetteville, much of that based on a town that it used to be. The dirty history that the town has makes its comeback today much more remarkable.

Again, PM me if you have questions you don't want to ask here, and I'm happy to answer.
 
Originally Posted By: linkbelt
Lived in that area for many years, then moved to Ga, (heat/humidity worse).
Here's how you handle it: Have several clean shirts available when you work outside, change as needed, to stay half-way dry. Some people wear long sleeve white cotton shirts. They are actually cooler. (try it and prove it to yourself!)


This is it, really. The first trick to living in the South: accept that it gets hot in the summer.

Yeah, if I'm out for 30 minutes mowing, I'm dripping wet. That's fine, but you have to plan for that. I have to plan to be outside, get sweaty, get my outside stuff done, then come in and take a shower before going out to supper. You can't try to sneak in some outside work and try to get by without bathing afterward (at least I can't). You go outside, you'll need a shower afterward. Once you accept that, it's much easier to handle.

We went to Pinehurst on Saturday to watch the Women's Open. Had a great time. Got hot and sweaty. Got back home. Took advantage of the sweaty clothes I already had on and washed the cars. Then went in to take a shower and chill for the rest of the day.

The heat is so much easier to live with if you don't try to fight it.
 
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