I don’t disagree than minivans and especially the Toyota Siennas are tough on tires. But I swear if I was the exception as I got 55K out of the OE Firestone FR710 with even wear just by keeping 40psig and 10K rotations. If it wasn’t for the annual state inspection, I’m sure I could have pushed another 5K as I was measuring about 3/32 depth. I now have Conti LX25 and like them a lot with 10K of same quiet, smooth, and great performing rain driving tire to date. As far as XL being more robust makes sense with respect to longevity but I have OE Bridgestone OE Turanza LS100 which are XL rated on my wife’s X1 and don’t think the tires will go more than 30K as the outer edges are wearing thin. So my experience is quite opposite but I also don’t drive spirited, late braking, jack rabbit starts, etc. etc so proving driving style does influence tire longevity.