On cast iron or steel , I use a sharp wood chisel as a scraper . Rightly or wrongly , I have been known to use them on aluminum . Very , very carefully !
When I replace a part , like a water pump , I use sealant between the part and gasket , so that if I ever have to replace it again , I do not have any trouble scraping the block . I resist using sealant ( no gasket ) only , as a gasket . Largely for this reason .
Far as I know , I have never blown a head gasket . Certainly never replaced one .
I have gotten the impression , on modern engines , blown HG is largely caused by running them low on coolant ? Is this what happened on your vehicle ?