Yep. Politics rule; hardball is the name of the game. There is no fair. If you wanna play with the big boys you better expect some bruises. Roll with the blows. But if you are lucky enough to be in the right place at the right time, and you are qualified for the business need being addressed, enjoy the ride.I spent my entire 28 year career working as a systems engineer in Silicon Valley.
One thing that's lost in this perk discussion is that Silicon Valley is a dog eat dog place. Budgets are a zero sum game. It's an "at will" place of employment. If you want to prosper, or even survive, you better be willing to play hardball with your career.
Scott
PS The woman in that video.....she wouldn't have lasted three months at my place of employment. She sounds like nothing more than "overhead". I can absolutely guarantee you a person like her would not be doing an all nighter to meet a deadline or find a fix for a mission critical customer.
I used to think everyone got options and grants. I was wrong. The money is there if you are responsible for a mission critical function. Golden handcuffs baby!