Yeah, the engine really isn't picky. Some UOA's produced higher Fe readings than the same engines using heavier oils. Plenty of people got very respectable Fe readings with simple 10w-30 ..but it was a YMMV kinda thing. I know my wife's 4.0 did terrible with M1 0w-30 and cut the Fe by like 50% (iirc) by going to Delvac 1 5w-40. If it's a morphed myth, it's got decent incidental support.
I will say that I've seen no difference in any perceivable way between 10w-30, 5w-30, 5w-40, and 15w-40 over the winter. No fuel economy difference ..no added noise..no problems cranking.
The 2.5 isn't quite the same. You can tell the cranking with heavier oils in colder weather, but that could just be the starter that they gave it.
Basically I think it breaks down that it's one of the few engines that can actually take advantage of HDEO's and heavier oils. Most contemporary engines just can't. It is kinda a dinosaur. It's a tough engine, so most match it with a tough oil.
It just wouldn't feel right putting something like M1 0w-40 in the thing.