So, so many people don't understand how good they have it. And I'm not talking about this poster's cousin's boyfriend in particular, but really everyone. We all live in wonderful time of modern medicine, communication, and comfort.
If you're healthy that alone is a HUGE thing. Imagine needing a kidney transplant and requiring daily or weekly sessions at a hospital on a machine to keep you alive. Or any other debilitating chronic illness. Even people that don't have much money live vastly better than people did 100 years ago, I know because I'm one of them.
I had throat cancer 14 years ago which led to weeks of radiation therapy, surgery, a feeding tube, etc. Those were tough days I wasn't sure I would make it through. I'm not exaggerating when i say there were times I didn't want to wake up the next day. My wife sacrificed a lot to take care of me 24/7. I had no medical insurance at the time due to some of my poor life decisions and it cost us our life savings. In fact we're still paying off some of the medical bills all these years later. But I have no complaints, I received incredible medical care and am healthy now. I also have a beautiful wife and family (our 3 furry troublemakers) and we live in a nice enough apt, have jobs we don't hate, and spend lot's of off time doing inexpensive day trips. Yes we can't afford to go out and buy new luxury SUVs or a mcmansion, but we have so much, such a good life in my eyes. And yes I do all our food shopping and preparation so I know firsthand the massive price increases of food and household items, but we still eat a healthy diet, still enjoy our meals, still enjoy life.
People that squander their life always pining for something they think will make them happy are imo completely missing what matters in life. These really are the good old days, don't let them pass you by.
TLDR: embrace life, one day you'll wish you had this time back.