Yep! Middleburg was the area! Really a wonderful part of VA. Not a lot of places left like it.Had a few mares at a friend's farm in Middleburg a beautiful and lovely place!
I know what you mean about women & horses, there is a saying to describe a spoiled horse and that's "it's a woman's horse" it doesn't apply universally as there are some very knowledgeable horsewomen, as there is a term Horse people & Horsey people