I got it working, if not 100%. Swapping parts into the replacement didn't work. The piston still traveled too far and leaked like crazy. I then got desperate and stripped the new one down like it was a rebuild kit to rehab the old one. Amazingly (to me anyway) some 220 grit sandpaper cleaned the old bore up nicely. I was thinking I'd need a hone but the varnish and surface rust gave way very easily. I just need to bleed one last bubble out and put the trim back on.
The one part of the job I just can't figure out is how to get the cylinder to fully seat into its hole in the side of the transmission case. There's a small ring on the cylinder right next to the mounting flange that should let it mount flush. However, I couldn't get it centered just right to drop that last little bit down in and so there's a little gap and I'm also missing that last 1.5mm of piston travel. Maybe I just need to go to the gym more or there's something about the mounting studs and flange that just won't let it seat properly. Once I have the time I'm going to let the transmission shop down the street from home look at it. In the right hands that shouldn't take more than ten minutes but I'm at the end of my gifts/skills here.
bottom line: no more Febi hydraulics for me, and please flush your clutch fluid sometime before 150k