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I’d like to eulogize my brother.

My brother was a person who lived in a big house. He bought many new cars during his life. He fathered five children, but was rarely a father to them. He was more interested in being liked by his sons and daughters, than he was in their respect.

His example to them was that your family would take care of you even if you have no interest in taking care of yourself. He taught them that material things were more important than personal integrity. I’m not sure that they received the message as when the distanced themselves from him, they began to thrive.

At the time of his death, my brother had not one person he could call a friend. He had not extended an effort to anyone in decades, not even to return a phone call to a childhood chum. He believed that the measure of a man was the how wealthy he looked. My brother extended his hand for charity from the window of new automobiles he bought. He could not understand why people found this strange. He asked for forgiveness of his debts while flying to exotic vacations. He claimed that the debt was to onerous for him to live the lifestyle with which he believed he was entitled.

My brother enjoyed spending other people’s money. He felt that others could not enjoy money in the manner that he enjoyed it, so why should they have it?

My brother was always going to square things soon. He would square them just as soon as his appetite for more stuff was satisfied.

My brother had a keen eye for the faults of others, he also had an apology for his own faults, but no desire to reform them.

My brother was entitled to the finest that life had to offer. He didn’t know what he wanted, only that he wanted more of it.

My brother had heard of right and wrong, but he did not know the difference. My brother had a tough life. A life that included many material things, but loyalty to no one and commitment to nothing.

My brother died on September 9, 2005. It’s just that no one has informed him.
 
Sorry to hear that.
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I hope his children learn from his mistakes and continue to thrive. Seems being liked is so important nowadays to parents. At least they have a great Uncle!

Sometimes getting things off your chest eases the pain.

Thanks for being honest.
 
Thanks for the thoughts. Sorry for your loss.

Sounds like my ex son-in-law. If I'm lucky..your brother could be him.
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I don't know that I had any choices. My brother and his wife had five children. Every business he had been involved with had failed. His wife developed breast cancer and died.

I saw many of these symptoms early, but I had to focus on the fact that he had kids and that he would not do to me what he had done to in laws.

I was wrong in my assesment, not in my actions. Money is really not important. I have skills to make money in life and do not want for material things.

My wife has MS and also lives to see others happy and not just for acquisitions. If money could cure her, I would be doing anything (yes stealing) to help her.

I have not lost my soul, just some of my faith in people.
 
Sounds like your brother was lost and pursued all the wrong goals without ever knowing it. Still, your brother was your brother, and I'm sure you are sorry for him having wasted his life like that.


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Originally posted by GROUCHO MARX:
He's still wasting it, just without me. I'm watching my niece and her husband with 3 children less than two years old embark upon the same journey.

Different theatre..same movie. I'm sure you are right.
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Well Al. My niece is going to buy a house for $275k with no money down, $15k in savings, $30k in credit card debt, two car loans/leases, 3 children, and a family income of less than $40k.

Does anyone think this will work?
 
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Originally posted by GROUCHO MARX:
Well Al. My niece is going to buy a house for $275k with no money down, $15k in savings, $30k in credit card debt, two car loans/leases, 3 children, and a family income of less than $40k.

Does anyone think this will work?


Apparently the lending agencies insane enough to extend loans(plural!) under those terms does.

They must be counting on reposession and resale...
 
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My niece is going to buy a house for $275k with no money down, $15k in savings, $30k in credit card debt, two car loans/leases, 3 children, and a family income of less than $40k.

Only in America! Jeez, the stress would kill me.
 
Believe or not GM - with 15K in savings - she's better than a whole lot of borrowers!

She probably has a high credit score, too boot.
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I've pretty much come to the conclusion - home lenders will give you a big yes if you possess a pulse. Very quickly I'll also add!

I remember my first home loan. Took forever. We had a ton saved. We both worked. No other debt. Interest rates well in the teens.........ah the good old days!
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