I see these days that a lot of reservation cancellations require a cancellation fee. Or possibly even the reservation requiring payment upfront for at least a nominal fee or perhaps a fixed price meal. Some people haven’t taken it well. However, I get that restaurants often staff and stock food in anticipation of reservations, so a large group cancelling can throw things well off. Like this example.
It’s 9 p.m. on a weekend night at Dalida, a bustling eastern Mediterranean restaurant in San Francisco, and yet, while most of the diners are scraping their bowls to scavenge their last gooey spoonfuls of caramel rice pudding, the staff — line cooks, servers, and the rest — are still as tense as a coiled spring.
By 9:20 p.m. the restaurant is nearly empty, save for the staff.
But the ovens stay hot.
Eventually, the owners, Laura and Sayat Ozyilmaz, throw in the towel and swallow the hard truth: The big group that reserved a 9 p.m. table isn’t going to show. Everyone they’ve scheduled to serve the table has been lingering for nothing. When the couple finally gets a hold of the no-show party, there’s no excuse. Just, “We forgot.”
On average, Sayat told me, the restaurant has 10 no-shows a night. “It hurts me every single time. Like how could you disrespect the 60 people working in this restaurant like this?”
“It’s demoralizing for everybody,” said Laura, including the cooks who are waiting around, the servers whose tips are being impacted and the hosts who have to bear the brunt of explaining to ornery customers why they can’t seat them at the clearly empty tables.