I am sorry for your loss.
As we were "discussing" the absolute stupidity of a member who felt it was his right as a citizen to drive impaired I can only hope he sees this thread and will finally accept responsibility for his blatantly careless and stupid actions,and understand his choices can affect others and in your particular circumstance a loved one is lost due to a persons assumption it's ok to drive impaired.
A life stolen in this manner is worse than most any other. A person driving down the road minding his own business suddenly killed because of someone else's disregard for sense and decency.
I am truly sorry for your loss. I hope the impaired driver gets what he/she deserves,in this life and the next.