It depends on the car and engine oil we used. I had changed on Toyota, Nissan, and Honda. Generally, the metal washer needs replacement after 2 or 3 oil changes or it starts to leak.
I tried Dorman metal rubber coated washer, but it torned a part when I used Ravenol VSE PAO oil. Decades ago, I found copper rubber coated from Dorman for Nissan, it works well for many-many years, but I only used group III oil at that time.
It is either the PAO is hard on rubber, or Dorman quality are bad now.
Now I stick with blue washer from Toyota, it is good for 2-3 oil changes with a proper torque. The black washer always leaks if it is overtorque or undertorque, and only can be used once.
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