To make that lifestyle change stick you have to come up with a system that works for you.
My system was to give myself a reasonable cash allowance every month, which covered non-essentials like entertainment and eating out. This gave me a visual "here's what I have to blow on whatever..." in the form of pile of cash. This worked great for me because I was always terrible at tracking receipts and using debt/credit cards I never really paid strict attention to what was going out.
After that, what was in my checking account was strictly for bills, fuel, food, and paying off debt. Every penny left over in my account was applied towards debt. It's a great feeling once you see that snowball in action and you're throwing big chunks of cash towards paying stuff down. Then you get the credit cards paid off, then the titles for the vehicles come in the mail, then.... the house is paid off.
Then you're free.
My system was to give myself a reasonable cash allowance every month, which covered non-essentials like entertainment and eating out. This gave me a visual "here's what I have to blow on whatever..." in the form of pile of cash. This worked great for me because I was always terrible at tracking receipts and using debt/credit cards I never really paid strict attention to what was going out.
After that, what was in my checking account was strictly for bills, fuel, food, and paying off debt. Every penny left over in my account was applied towards debt. It's a great feeling once you see that snowball in action and you're throwing big chunks of cash towards paying stuff down. Then you get the credit cards paid off, then the titles for the vehicles come in the mail, then.... the house is paid off.
Then you're free.