I have to plug in a scanner to see intake/ oil/ coolant/ trans temps. The SS has a pretty dead on Trans and coolant gage cluster. (No block oil temp) But a block over-temp above 260°f on rad coolant immediately zeroes out the OLM and it limps with DIC message of "CHANGE OIL NOW".
Mum's '13 impala hides it, but plugin scan shows it all, even catalyst temp.
For the first 15~20 mi. on either, the oil temp lags behind coolant temp, especially on the Impala.
They come in line with one another after those 20 or so miles, but with casual highway load, both have sump temperatures exceed coolant temps. Eventually the trans oil temp slightly exceeds coolant too, rising but stable under water boiling points. (About 200°f)
My educated "guess" over the years I can safely say that no matter the application, oil sump temps exceed engine/ coolant temps by at least 75 or more degrees if the engine is healthy. There may be localized oil temperatures especially if you street romp or sport/ race drive that further age oil faster.
I own, drive, maintain GM products and change early. I dump and refill @ 15% life of possible. I only saw "CHANGE OIL SOON" on a vehicle my mother owns once... but you know... boomer but beloved mummy that's not at all a car gal. ^.^