In the case of the XC-90 - there has never been a vehicle on vehicle crash fatality with that car, in North American or Europe, with over 20 years of it being on the road - which is genuinely remarkable. That’s why my kids were given a Volvo.
XC90 is a safe car.. but this is no more than internet myth BS.
Here's one XC90 crash with fatality from just last year.
No car is invincible. IIRC the Lexus RX350 had the lowest driver fatality rate last I checked.