We never decorate till after thanksgiving, and we haven't put up a tree for the past several years. We have a real nice fake tree , but it sits in the box, as I am too lazy to assemble it. If the kids, and even more importantly, the grandkids, were to come for the holiday, We would decorate more.
Don't want to sound like we don't get together with family, just that we go to their house rather than them coming to ours. Don't know why, as our house is as nice and as large as any of theirs, but that is the way it is. Sometimes I think they think it is easer for my wife as she doesn't have to make the big meal.