Not sure about the earlier ones, but I looked up the install guide for the Gen 3 Wall Connector and it can be set up with access control for designated Teslas by VIN. I get that the Destination Charging program usually means a Wall Connector is set up where it doesn't require a registration nor log the power usage per vehicle, but I've heard that there is some pilot program to allow the host to charge for the power. But to program this, it has to be connected via the Wall Connector's built-in Wi-Fi, which apparently isn't internet connected but allows access to set it up.
Setting Up Access Control
The Charging Access Control feature provides full control over which vehicles are allowed to charge with your Wall Connector and excludes vehicles without access based on user specifications.
1. Sign into the commissioning wizard..
Use the Commissioning Procedure on page 28 to sign into the commissioning wizard and connect to
the Wall Connector Wi-Fi SSID by clicking on the 'Access Control' card.