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If Valvoline, then Valvoline Premium Blue Extreme 5w-40 has HT/HS of 4.0cP (well, all HDEO's of -40 grade in general have higher hths that their PC cousins of the same viscosity and are shear stable).
https://sharena21.springcm.com/Publ...2d889bd3/00eea680-e29c-e711-9c10-ac162d889bd3
...or,as edyvw proposed-LL01 full saps oils in xw-40.
I would not use 2-stroke oil in a modern diesel injection system. Funny interactions may occur with PIBSI and the diesel fuel additives leading to (accelerated) internal diesel injector deposit formation (in operation and during hot-soak after shutdown). Rather, use a dedicaded one or a diesel blend containing 2--5% BioDiesel to avoid lubr. issues (although this comes with oither penalties). A thing to avoid is using OTC additives of different manufacturers in the same vehicle. Both limits (<460micron HFRR score in Europe and <520 in US) are far from great...however,due to mandated FAME content the Euro diesel is way better now...while US results tend to hover around the 520micron).
One example of the unexpected :
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