Tried a variety:
GC--quietest idle, but engine "screamed" at 4K rpm
Mobil1 OW40--quiet idle, very smooth, but didn't like it in the winter (15 degree highs, 0 degree lows last Jan in Boise, that was an atypical winter month)
Chevron Supreme Synthetic 5W40--thickest oil I have tried. Quiet idle, engine felt the least responsive
QSUD 5W30--trying this as an experiment over the winter. Yes, does not meet the BMW spec. but engine is now fun!! Quiet idle, but a bit more engine noise, but does not bother me.
For the majority of the time, I have used the Mobil OW40--very smooth and very nice in the heat of the summer.