Well, since you're looking for opinions, I'll give mine.
It depends:
How do you drive your 4.0? Highway? Suburban? Typcial trip length? How many miles a year?
4.0 show better wear numbers on 40 weights. Just about ever 30 weight Amsoil ends up there anyway. If you're going to do extended drains and are a long tripper, I'd probably go with the 5w30 3000 ($$$). I'd also start the OCI in the late Fall.
If you're a short tripper ..a 30 weight appears to work well ..also 40 weights may tax your short trip fuel economy (as though economy is an issue with most jeeps) at least in the dino realm.
So ...how long do you want to run the oil change interval (OCI)??