Or a different design altogether or some type of seal at the interface. Pretty clear to me the actual manufacturer up to First Brands really is not in a receptive mode.The leaf spring is too stiff for the middle area between the ears to "raise" or even "flatten out" if the force on the two ears is increased. The ears will flex to a certain degree, then permanently deform if too much force is applied before the middle raises up like you theorize. WCW showed this with his vice test to put more pressure on the leaf spring ears. The leaf spring design is very stiff around the area that interfaces with the end cap, so it it's not stamped flat and smooth, no amount of force on the ears is going to make it seal better on the end cap. The only fix is to stamp the leaf spring correctly in the first place. Do the testing yourself to see.
My recommendation for oil filters now is the same as it has been for the last few+ years.