I understand your concern. I
went through several sets of tires that were impossible to balance. Word of warning, buying tires online makes warranty claims super difficult if not impossible, yes, even in your scenario. Having had nothing but headaches with TireRack, DiscountTireDirect, DiscountTire, PepBoys, Firestone tirecenter and GoodYear tirecenter, I finally settled on my local Walmart tirecenter as the best place to buy and install tires.
No drama, good service and super smooth ride. YMMV of course.
This is bad advice. Get the roadforce balance and document, document, document. If your tires shake, you will need to submit the RF values as evidence for warranty. Every tire manufacturer has different warranty requirements. General (=Continental) says any tire with RF reading of 18 lbs or less is "good." This is complete nonsense, even tires with 10lbs RF shake my front end violently, but it's their "standard".
OEMs of course have much stricter standards and do not accept any wheel assembly from suppliers with RF over 2lbs.
Most tires these days only have a red dot. There are conflicting opinions about how the red dot should be lined up on the rim. Discount tire employees could not agree amongst themselves. It doesn't seem to matter. A well made tire won't care and a poorly made tire will remain way out of balance even after remounting with the dot on the other side of the rim.