Let's be careful here ...
First of all, the OEM names for some tractions control units are different from the Eaton names (see link below).
For many years, the GM version of the AAM 11.5, from the factory, uses their "G-80" (GM designation) type of "locking" diff. (It's not a true locker, but it's a ramping-clutch type unit, but that's a story for a different time) ... I'm not sure if they still use this "locking" (ramp-clutch) system now. I don't even see that system in Eaton's line up now.
The RAM version of the AAM 11.5, from the factory, does not use that same unit, as far as I can tell. It's the "Anti-Spin", is it not?
Because the AAM is offered by many OEMs, and it has a decent aftermarket support, you must be careful that you're discussing apples-to-apples here.
The GM G-80 "locker" uses FM in the gear lube. GM has a previous statement out regarding their "grape juice" diff fluid (9986115). That statement says to not add FM to the diff; that's because their GM fluid already has FM in it, and adding more could adversely affect the bias value of the clutch pack. This unit absolutely needs FM to work properly, but not too much FM.
The TrueTrac version uses a Torsen type system. These also are sensitive the frictional effect of the worm-gear bias. These will work with FM, but they will lose a bit of their effectiveness. Generally, just a good GL-5 with no FM is the right choice for Torsen type units.
I don't see a unit called "Anti-Spin" in their catalog. Is that a name of the vehicle OEM and not Eaton?
https://www.eaton.com/us/en-us/prod...action-control/aftermarket-differentials.html