Yeah, I'd go with what the owner's manual says until you get clarification. Who knows if the oil fill cap got replaced with one that has the wrong weight on it.
The 04's and 05's come in all the time with either the 5w20 cap or the standard chrysler cap. Either 520 or 530 will work fine. I use 530 in the GF's mother's 05 Caravan 3.3. It has 100k on it now. If it was mine, in that motor I would prefer 5w30.
My buddy has a 09 Grand Cherokee and he uses 5w30, and decided all on his own.. no prodding from me needed. He is convinced the engine "sounds" much smoother on the 30 weight. I can't argue with that as I put 30 weights in my corolla.