You can't fix headgasket designs with oil specs. So if headgaskets are your concern, oil is the wrong place to look.
For a hybrid, you want to minimize restart wear. Which means a very good, high moly boundary wear formulation and at least the 800ppm limit on phosphorus via ZDDP. Many hybrids won't have oil temps hot enough to really let ZDDP do its thing effectively, so moly becomes even more important.
A 40 grade will have less restart wear when hot. This is because it not only has a thicker residual film, but because 40 grades are not ILSAC or Energy Conserving, so they aren't formulated for extra low HTHS and can have less VII overall (higher VII tends to push HTHS down, a good thing for mpg oils).
But more important than viscosity is choosing an oil with esters for good metal affinity at startup and moly for good lower temperature boundary lubrication.
Even the basic PCMO grade oils from HPL are far superior to most oils for hybrids because they have the ester+moly formulation that provides superb protection during both cold and hot restarts, and this additive content is far more important than running a particular viscosity.
I advocate 40 grades for many commercial consumer oils because you can get a less constrained formulation. But it's a lot less effective than having a known superb additive strategy like HPL uses. IN other words, a 20 grade HPL will outperform a 40 grade shelf oil because it has the right additives and blend.
So, in order of protection for a hybrid:
1) HPL PCMO in any viscosity you want
2) Euro 0w oils (higher SAPS preferred)
3) about everything else.
Especially for a hybrid that tends to run cool oil temps, thicker viscosity isn't that helpful (though it never hurts in warm climates). Rather, it's about the overall blend and how the additives work in that application.