Copied and pasting it here from another thread I participated in. I hope this helps you in your decision.
“2014 Subaru Forester XT, currently at 185,000 miles. Purchased new in May of 2014.
Repaired/replaced items:
Front and rear wheel bearings have all been replaced. I think I am on my 4th replacement, 6 if you count the two right side wheel bearing that needed to be replaced because of a pothole. Subaru was kind enough to replace it when vehicle was still under warranty. They did not even ask what happened.
Trans. oil pump chain cover started leaking oil at around 90K miles. Engine has to come out for this repair since the chain cover is inside the bell housing. I was quoted $1,400 dollars by the dealer in 2019 to reseal it. I decided to do it myself in the span of 3 weeks working on it after work. Took my time to catalogue all the nuts, bolts, hoses and connectors.
Replaced driver side axle at around 150K miles since it started clattering when making a tight left turn.
Replaced radiator at around 160K miles with a CSF all aluminum radiator. The original one developed hairline cracks at the upper plastic end tank. Good thing I caught this one a week before my wife went on a trip to NY from MD, It gave me time to order the CSF radiator.
Warranty work:
Trans. valve body was replaced under the 100K mile extended warranty issued by Subaru. I was at 98k miles when the dash lit up like a Christmas tree due to the faulty valve body. If this happened after warranty period, it would have cost me around, if my memory is correct, around $1,400 in 2019.
Spark plugs were inspected, cylinder compression tested and the ECU reprogramed for LSPI issues on early production 2014-2015 Forester XT.
I am still comfortable about keeping this vehicle since all repairs to it have all been pretty well spread out, not overwhelming me to the point of thinking about getting rid of it.”
I forgot to mention it in that thread, I also replaced all 4 struts/shocks at around 135K miles. One of the front struts started leaking and I decided to replace all 4, along with the related bushings and mounts.