1. I see you live in Texas - the very first thing I would do is get a decent transmission cooler in there to complement the cooler in the radiator. Take it from someone living in an equally hot climate - we're in the high 110's here right now and my TFT is hovering in the 210-235 F range.
I got an ACDelco cooler for another application, which I will be installing very soon. This is something I didn't realize until my torque converter started to shudder bad and I finally got around to installing a ScanGauge-II. I've got a Derale transmission pan there as well, with an additional 2 quart capacity and cooling fins. Perfect fit.
I would advise you check the condition of the ATF, and if it's decent, either do a line off flush with a quality Dexron-VI, or a partial drain and refill until all the fluid is replaced. I personally put in 2 bottles of LubeGard Red in there as well, which works well.
2 . For engine oil, I personally favor synthetics. My export vehicle calls for ACEA A3 instead of ILSAC GF-4, I run a low SAPS 5w30 with a WIX XP filter. Mobil 1 0W-40 would be a decent option, perhaps 5w30 EP or GC 0w30 if you can get it. If you're using an ACDelco filter, get the PF-61 instead of the PF-61E.
3. Replace the thermostat and thoroughly flush/back flush the cooling system with Dex-Cool. Toyota SLL pink is a decent alternative if you want to switch, as is John Deere CoolGard-II.
4. Replace the hydraulic brake hoses for safety reasons, if they've never been replaced. DOT 4 fluid works well in this application. You may need a Tech-II or equalivant to bleed the ABS module.
5. I run Autolite double plats, many people swear by ACDelco 41-103's (NGK). Either way, I would do the plugs and get a set of coil boots/springs. Denso has a well priced, good quality offering.
6. With the engine off, pull the power steering cooler line off and turn the wheel to full lock from the side to side to get all the fluid out. You can run GM power steering fluid or an alternative - I use CHF 11S.
7. Diff fluid. The gasket's reusable, unless torn. I like using the grape scented GM 75W-90 stuff (part # 89021677).
8. The valve actuator solenoid and cam position sensor are two things to look at.
Check your ball joints, especially the uppers, brake pads/rotors and make sure the fan clutch is in good shape. Use a pressure washer to clean out any dust/debris in the AC condenser/radiator.