Don't worry so much about it, Shadd..
New 4-bangers are easy on the oil. On my new AccentGT I've run Motorcraft, Pennzoil, Dino and every form of Syn, and can't tell any difference whatsoever in feel, sound or performance or MPG even between 0W30, 5W20, 10W30. Hang with 5W20 SM GF4, and dino, blends, or syn, you'll be well served. At 5K oci, that Motorcraft 5W20 blended for the money (or maybe at any price) will more than do the trick. I go 7500 with syn, 5K dino (my car can go 7500 easy service). If your car has a maximum spec of 5K, don't violate it.
Don't ever, ever, trust the Stealership enough to go outside their specs. Other than that, enjoy!