Dan, one does not "Casually" look for a home. It's a pretty serious endeavor (and a major investment )best done when you're ready. . It doesn't sound as if you or your needs are there just yet.
So, the first thing to look for are what your CURRENT needs are. In much the same way that you're not rushing out to buy a mini van, you shouldn't buy more than you currently need. Unless you have a particularly accurate crystal ball, it's really impossible to know what the future holds, and if the time and money spent now will turn out to be worthwhile. Things like schools and the like are meaningless when you do not have children, and who knows what those will be like if/when that need arises. Also, as others have mentioned, don't assume your future wife will want to move into and stay in your home, she might have much different ideas about all that.
What might be best right now is to start a savings and investment plan so you have the money set aside and growing for that future purchase, and continue to spend to keep your current place up to date and fresh for eventual resale.
It's always best to plan for the future, but not necessarily make long term commitments about that future until it becomes much clearer.
So, the first thing to look for are what your CURRENT needs are. In much the same way that you're not rushing out to buy a mini van, you shouldn't buy more than you currently need. Unless you have a particularly accurate crystal ball, it's really impossible to know what the future holds, and if the time and money spent now will turn out to be worthwhile. Things like schools and the like are meaningless when you do not have children, and who knows what those will be like if/when that need arises. Also, as others have mentioned, don't assume your future wife will want to move into and stay in your home, she might have much different ideas about all that.
What might be best right now is to start a savings and investment plan so you have the money set aside and growing for that future purchase, and continue to spend to keep your current place up to date and fresh for eventual resale.
It's always best to plan for the future, but not necessarily make long term commitments about that future until it becomes much clearer.
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