Talk to some older people sometime. Some of them have a real disconnect between their past experience and today's reality. They'll say young adults should simply buy a house as they did in their 20s, then brag that their own houses are worth X times what they paid decades ago.
Some not as old are in the same mindset. Their attitude is that they worked summer jobs and paid for college/university without much debt 30–40 years ago, so today's young adults should be able to do the same. There is no comprehension that higher-ed costs have shot up much faster than inflation since 1990.
This is not true.
The disconnect is many but by no means all of the young. BTW - there are boatloads and boatloads of successful young people. My kids are doing great, one college, one no college, the college one paid off her loans in 5 years, worked while she was in college too, no spring break for her, she worked.
Its the media that makes you think otherwise. People who think this world is hard need to turn off mass media, they only report gloom and doom or you wouldnt watch it and they would not survive.
Yes, young people can buy a house like one used to but try telling a young person to give up the iPhone, give up the big screen TV with paid TV programming, give up the air-conditioning, learn to live with a home that only has one bathroom, give up the new cars and drive a $7000 car and most of all live only in a small home with low costs.
Forget about buying furniture too, cheap BR set, Cheap Kit table, no dining room, no living room furniture until the day comes that they can buy it.
This above is EXACTLY what 10s and 10s of thousands of YOUNG people did in the 1950s. Many whom dogged bullets in WWII They had nothing, no one gave them anything, they worked hard. They bought homes with every last dime saved, didnt even have furniture to buy in some cases for years, is now one of the most affluent places in the USA, Long Island NY. From potato fields to small homes in the 1950s. That generation knew hard work or guess what? You starved.
Ahhh .. college, that is a joke and another poor excuse, look up the facts and figures of money wasted by young people who never even finish and many of the ones that do dont even go into the field they took in college. Of course college is expensive, many young have no respect for it and give colleges all the money they ask for instead of shopping around. Its a bad joke, heck listen to some youth when they call into Dave Ramsey. Spending 100k and working a 45k job when they get out.
Just yesterday I received my quarterly 45 page Midlandstech.edu Training guide with all the training and certification courses available for pennies compared to college. Dates, times, classes salaries.\THings like A+ IT techniciation, Network+, Servier+, Security+, Linux+, Cisco Certified Network associate, that in only the first page of 45, every aspect of our lives and the business world covered including entry level into the health care fields as technicians, nurses aid, every time I get this publication I am AMAZED at the fields available and the low costs.
College isnt for everyone and anyone in the USA can advance themselves with a good paying job and a home. ANYONE, its laughable to hear different. Life has never, ever been more easy for mankind than in the USA, one just has to work. Now that is a concept.
Anyone who wants a job where in a few years they can buy their own house, raise a family and not need their spouse to work, all they have to do is want to work and move to where the job is. I have it for them, right here in SC.
All they need is a High School education if that is all they are capable of. Best medical benefits in the USA, best PTO in the USA, great company but guess what? You have to want to work. Ok, this is ONE tiny example but that company is BMW in SC. Never mind Volvo or Boeing or DOZENS and dozens of supporting companies. They are on constant, NON STOP hiring frenzies.
Never mind as mentioned public service like police, fire and sanitation.
If that doesn't work you can stack paper towels in Target ro make Coffee in Starbucks for the outrageous sum of 40k a year.
Oh... and lets not forget about the largest free training/education institution in the free world. So what is the young people you speak of excuse for not taking up that offer? The US Military.
I guess I have been blessed in life, no, maybe just taught right, my parents, my siblings, my niece's, my nephews, my children, every one of them is successful in life, no matter if college or not. They all have homes and families.
The one that was in the military is now a CEO of a company and sold his six figure home, moved to another state and bought another 6 figure home because head hunters are always making him offers and this guy started out with nothing in life, nothing.
Repeat, there are many times more successful young people in this country than not but the ones that are not make the noise because they are too busy doing nothing with their lives. Please dont take my words the wrong way, I am just having a conversation my post in not meant to be argumentative at all.
One reason being is, if anyone wants a job they can message me and I will give them the BMW link or they can google it themselves, while they are at it, can google Volvo, Boeing ect... and the support industries, they are always hiring.