Yes - you can install a dP system such as what Jim Allen has done.
He has a very high-end monitor system that tracks input and output pressure across the filter (the vast majority of which is actually across the media, but technically would also include design and manufacturing of the entire filter oil path). The system even datalogs all the info several times a second. If you know Jim (an admitted gage-a-holic), you'd understand how credible and meticulous he is and how this system is about as robust that anyone could have short of being in a lab.
What I am to understand is that when cold, oil will only bypass the media only upon high revs. Once oil is warmed the bypass events are essentially non-existent, even with long OCIs.
Additionally, you cannot think of the bypass as a snap-spring event. Rather, it will crack open at some preset pressure (eg 8 psi), but not be fully open until some value after that (perhaps 11-12 psi?). The greater then dP, the more the valve will lift off the seat against the spring. And so, it's not as if ALL oil will bypass the filter media all at once. It is situationally dependent upon a great many things like oil temps, media loading, psi (typically in relation to rpm's), etc.
You will never be able to discern these bypass events with a typical dash oil pressure gage; they are not accurate enough and also only look at one side of the equation.